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Fluffs versus Anti-Fluffs
© 2004 SeaMyst
(this topic is currenty under debate in the forums)


I’ve been visiting other sites and forums for some time now and something I keep seeing disturbs me. A great many sites offer pages of commentary on how awful the state of Wicca is becoming due to the influx of “fluffy bunny” pagans. These sites explain just how awful these fluffies are and how they must be stopped.

For those that may not know what a fluffy bunny is, you probably still won’t know by the end of this article. You see, everyone seems to have a different answer. Many people spout that a fluffy is someone new to the Wiccan path who hasn’t taken the time to learn anything about their path but “preaches” it nonetheless. Others state emphatically that a fluffy is defined as anyone who is not “serious” about Wicca. I’ve heard phrases like willful ignorance, lack of scholarship, and role-playing bandied about as definitions. I’ve heard them likened to “holiday Christians”. Some include anyone they deem as “playing” at being pagan. But what it all seems to boil down to, is that everyone knows what a fluffy is and can point their finger while scoffing at one. A fluffy is someone who isn’t doing it right.

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Unfortunately, the idea of fluffies in pagan society has polarized the community in an almost political way. The Conservatives – the Anti-Fluffy Bunny Movement – are dead set against fluffies. These are the Traditionalists, the scholars, the people who have read and absorbed all the true and truly valuable information out there on their Wiccan path. If they haven’t gotten to all of it yet, they humbly admit it but still point out that knowing about such sources still puts them ahead. They speak of the Core values of Wicca and Gardner and the Craft in hallowed tones of respect while trying to crush the heart out of newcomers just happy to have found something uplifting. There is the right way and the wrong way of doing things. They are above such demeaning things as fluffies and would like to stamp them out once and for all. 

Meanwhile, the Liberals – the Fluffies and their Followers – spend their time reading books by authors on the Conservative Banned List. Authors such as Silver Ravenwolf and Scott Cunningham. They might read a little or they might have voracious appetites. They might try spellcraft or they might not. They pick and choose what works for them and they don’t mind if anyone calls their path into question. They identify as Wiccan even though they may not entirely understand that title and they proudly wear their jewelry and crystals and burn incense at every opportunity. They’re happy in their hearts and they love to share their newfound joy with all who will listen. They certainly don’t understand all the fuss and frothing of the Conservatives; after all, what’s wrong with being a Solitary Wiccan Eccentric? 

donkey grinning

That leaves us with the Moderates, which is probably where I fall. These folks understand the joy and fun the Liberals are having and they don’t care if they are doing it right, wrong, or oddly. In the minds of these folks, everyone is doing it right so long as they are happy with their choices and are not harming anyone else. When Conservatives foam that Liberals are ruining Wicca for everyone, the Moderates chuckle and wonder how that could possibly be if everyone practices in their own way and the “Ten Commandments of Wicca” were never exactly set forth by the Wiccan Moses. When Liberals come begging for spells, Moderates gently explain and point them in the right direction for learning how to write their own. Moderates seem to operate under the live and let live rule and see no harm in role playing, jumping on the fashion statement or rebellion bandwagon, or dipping a wondering toe into things. These folks seem to understand that these people need something like this in their lives at this moment for whatever reason. Some will hop the rails and ride only to the next town while others will ride the rails for the rest of their lives and grow in the process. The Moderates are happy to give them a hand up as needed and jaunty wave when they depart.

As with all politics, you have your far left and right and those that fall just shy of middle. Some Conservatives are still willing to lead the Liberals into the One True Way while others are guilty of hypocritical rhetoric and think these Liberals should be exterminated like the rabble they are. Some Liberals “join up” only to punish their parents or to prove something, while others are simply curious. Why should any of these groups be lesser or more than the others?


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And that’s where we get into human nature. The human species has a need to answer the age old why are we here question. Religion gives us those answers. We find the answers that resonate with us and we cling to those answers. As individuals, we must believe we are right and on the right path. When someone comes along that throws a shadow on our way, that makes us question ourselves. Some folks react to that questioning in fear while others use those questions as an opportunity to grow. Still others fall back on their religion’s dogma and rhetoric to justify their positions. Why should this be any different in the pagan community?

These Conservatives, then, that beat their chests and flail their swords in the face of Fluffy Tyranny, aren’t they simply railing against their own fears? They must follow their Traditional ways, spout their dogma, condescend to others, and above all, feel elite among pagan practitioners in order to feel good about themselves. Well, isn’t that exactly what the Liberals are doing? They’re out there making up their own ways, spouting their beliefs, condescending to Christians (when they aren’t actively hating them), feeling elite and above the Abraham-based religions of the world and feeling good about themselves?

Why does it always have to come down to name calling and My Way is the Right Way among the peoples of the earth? Is it truly in our nature’s to war with one another? It seems to me that war between countries and war between religious factions aren’t all that much different. The casualties litter the fields either way, be they dead soldiers or lost souls. If we truly wish to show the world a fortified and united pagan community, then the warring amongst our factions must cease. We are no better than any other religious community in our bickering and our denominations. We just call them by different names.


Here are a few sites with the sentiments noted above.

Wild Ideas: Why I don't like Scott Cunningham

Traditional Family Witchcraft (essay)

All One Wicca: Intellectual Integrity Article

Alpha's Rants: Why "Why Wiccans Suck" Sucks

Diane Vera: The Anti-Fluffy Movement Among Pagans

Wicca for the Rest of Us: No More Fluffy Bunnies

Wicca for the Rest of Us: Why We Despise Silver Ravenwolf



© 1997 Robin Woodm
used with permission


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