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| Avoiding
Pagans for Profit: 12 Red Flags |
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Pagan websites
abound on the Internet these days. Some offer accurate information
while others mislead. It can be difficult to sort out the sites
providing accurate information in a nurturing environment from posers.
Certain activities on a Pagan website should send up Red Flags of
warning as you search for truths among the fodder. Be cautious should
you spot any of the following Red Flags.
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| DONATIONS: |
Many sites have
legitimate reasons for
soliciting donations.
Check for an accounting of received donations and for where the
collected funds go. If no information is offered on the site, consider
contacting the site administrators for a full accounting. Don’t be
taken in by a scammer posing as a legitimate site. |
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| FEES & CHARGES: |
Some
websites offer forums, bulletin board systems or
Member’s Areas. Some areas may be free while others require a fee. Be
sure you know what you are paying for. Talk with site members; ask
questions; send email to the site’s moderators or administrators before
parting with your money. Use caution if fees are for servers alone.
Websites are not huge expenditures. Consider asking the following
questions:
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What exactly
does the fee cover? |
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Are there
expiration dates requiring more
fees to continue? |
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If paying for
classes, are the classes
complete? |
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If not, will
they be completed within a
reasonable amount of time? |
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If the
timeframe is not met, will refunds
be issued? |
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If paying
areas of the site later become
free to new members, will refunds be issued? |
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Have fees
changed (increased, decreased,
added, removed) frequently in the last year? Why? |
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| SELLING SPELLS: |
Often, we
look for the quick fix to our
problems, whether they are job related, financial, or matters of the
heart. The quick fix, however, doesn’t solve the problem but merely
places a temporary Band-Aid over the issue. To heal hurts and solve
problems requires our own effort, not simple fixes from others. As with
all things, the spells you design yourself will have the most power and
meaning in your life. Your intent, your energy and your focus in a
spell or working will bring your goal to fruition whether you use a
simple working or a complex spell. In fact, some of the simplest
workings are the most effective! Ingredients may be few or many,
everyday items or arcane specialties. There are many books to guide you
or you may simply “go from the gut”. However you do it, don’t let
someone tell you that you must purchase a spell to have it work. A site
selling spells may be a site interested only in taking your money. |
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| Some people
will do anything for money. Don’t be lured in by
someone offering to work a spell for you, perform a ritual on your
behalf, pray over a candle for you, or any other type of service for
which you receive nothing in hand. If you can’t see them working for
you, how do you know anything is being done? Don’t throw your money
away. Any ritual or spell work, devotional prayer, or energy transfers
will have more impact if you perform them yourself and they won’t cost
you anything but time and energy! |
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| SELLING
CURSES: |
For most
Pagans, a curse isn’t something we
would want on our conscience whether for reasons of Karmic return, the
Three Fold Rule, the Golden Rule, or any number of similar ideals.
Spotting curses for sale would make me question the sincerity of the
site administrators and their motivations for the site. |
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| LOVE SPELLS: |
Many sites
offer love spells. A word of
caution here before you delve into them. Love spells interfere with
another person’s free will. If you wish simply to draw love into your
life, there are many ways to do so. If you wish to bind another person
to you, be very careful what you wish for, as feelings change over
time. That said, as with any other working or spell, those of your own
design cost you little and are more effective. Don’t be lured into a
site offering to return the love of your life to you for just $19.95.
Question the ethics behind the lure and question the motivating factor
behind the site offering them. |
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| WICCAN MYSTERIES: |
Be leery of
sites offering to sell access
to the Wiccan Mysteries. Wicca has opened up tremendously in the last
few years and isn’t much of a mystery anymore. Seek knowledge freely
from the Internet, your local library, and through contact with other
practitioners. |
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| PITY POSTS: |
Many sites
offer members forums to ask
questions, encourage discussion, and to offer like-minded individuals a
nurturing place to share their views. Site administrators and
moderators should take an active role on their forums. Do they
participate or do they only appear to issue warnings? Be wary of posts
by administrators that invoke pity in you. For example, a site owner
complaining about the time and effort he or she puts into the site; a
site owner lamenting a lack of appreciation by members; a site owner
begging for money in forum posts. These could be indicators that the
site owners or administrators are more interested in drawing on your
emotions, energy, and money than in providing you with a nurturing
environment. |
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| EXPERTS ALL: |
The term
Pagan covers a vast number of
spiritual paths. Within each path, you’ll find people who have studied
for decades and others who’ve only just begun their journey. No one
person knows everything about every spiritual path. While an individual
devoted to study can certainly accumulate a great wealth of knowledge,
a very few would claim to be an expert. There is always something new
to learn! Question websites that discourage exploration – of other
Pagan sites as well as spiritual paths. One learns and grows through
seeking knowledge and questioning the answers one finds. Additionally,
be wary of sites wherein the administrators/moderators are referred to
as parents, mother and/or father. Instilling familial ties may be
another way to bind you to a singular site. Those sites attempting to
tie you only to them through loyalty, pity, or financial obligations
could fear being discovered as less than the experts they claim to be. |
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| WHITE / BLACK
WITCHCRAFT |
Question
sites that speak of White
Witchcraft or Black Witchcraft. Most Pagans do not consider witchcraft
to be either. Witchcraft is a tool, like any other, that allows a
person to focus energy. Energy can be used for positive or negative
goals; however reducing energy work to “black or white” is misleading
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| SHOPPING: |
Many Pagan
websites offer a shop where
items such as herbs, tools, and candles may be purchased. Look for
defined delivery times and refund policies before ordering. Internet
sales should be delivered within 30 days of the order unless
specifically noted. Compare prices with shops known to you and do not
buy simply out of loyalty to a specific site. You aren’t doing yourself
any favors paying more for items you could spend less on elsewhere. |
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| MEMBERSHIPS: |
Read the
Terms and Conditions of the
website before you hit that little “agree” button. Do you really agree
with everything? Does anything seem odd to you? If so, question it. Get
answers before you go on. Look for a balance between the site owner’s
terms and the member’s rights. A site heavy on conditions that must be
met by all members but light on what rights members have may warrant a
second look before you sign up. |
© 2004 K Dickinsonupdated June 2006
admin@thricetaboo.com